Online dating is the exploding trend which lets people search love, relationship and even sex. But since it provides you enormous options to choose from, so you need to ask a friend for advice.
But there should be some proper etiquette which needs to be kept in mind if you advising a friends dating. While advising a dating friend, you should keep in mind that it is about his/her life, so his/her choice comes first. You need to know that the friend needs your advice to choose amongst the most preferred choices. You should ask them what they want and what he/she are looking for. Your behavior should not be interfering rather it should be concerning. You should feel privileged and honored to be the chosen for your advice.
But there should be some proper etiquette which needs to be kept in mind if you advising a friends dating. While advising a dating friend, you should keep in mind that it is about his/her life, so his/her choice comes first. You need to know that the friend needs your advice to choose amongst the most preferred choices. You should ask them what they want and what he/she are looking for. Your behavior should not be interfering rather it should be concerning. You should feel privileged and honored to be the chosen for your advice.
Do ask about the important information about the person. Looks, status, location, these are amongst the many things that we all look for in a person. If your dating friend asks you then you can go and meet his/her date at a get-together and try to start a casual conversation. By doing so you can get to know him/her better and thus will be in a better situation to advice. Try to make him/her comfortable in your friend circle and do not feel his/her presence interfering in your friendship. Take care that you do not fall for the person your friend has a liking for. This will spoil your friendship. In fact if your friends like starts falling for you, make him/her understand that you are not into her/him. Even if he/she continues to behave in the same manner then do not hesitate in telling your friend about it as later on if your friend gets to know about it then your friendship will face the terrible time. Do not ask for their personal details like how close they are physically etc. Do not read their personal love messages. You do not have the liberty to do so.
Agreed that it’s a responsible task to advice somebody because if things do not go in a positive way then you will get blamed for it and there are chances of you losing a dear friend in the deal are quite positive too. But this does not means that you should not advice a friend. Remember tables can turn at any time and you too can fall in a situation where a friend’s advice is indispensable.
Advice a dating friend whenever he/she asks for it. Don’t forget a friend in need is a friend indeed.
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